Welcome to my little corner of the web. I am thrilled for you to visit and I hope to connect with as many of you as possible. I am humbled by the messages I have received and I am grateful for the reminder that I am not alone on this journey. Obesity is hard and long term weight loss is even harder. I don’t pretend to have it all figured out, but I have learned a few things that work along the way. I had no idea that I would end up on the front page of Yahoo this morning, but I don’t think it’s a coincidence.
I am still unpacking a recent setback, trying to understand how and why I went from a loose size 12 to a tight size 14 over the course of a month. After much introspection and many heartfelt conversations, what resonates above all is being kind to myself. The first few weeks back from vacation, I was not. I felt desperate to lose weight (a feeling I know all too well) and I was angry at myself and my body. Motivation that comes from a place of fear never works, yet there I was.
As a culture, we have started talking more about self-care, but what does that really mean and how are we putting it into practice? How does this apply to weight loss, loving our bodies, and ultimately accepting ourselves? Self-care is at the very core of a healthy, happy life, yet so many of us spend our lives seeking a diet plan or training regimen as the solution.
I have been preparing to announce a new community initiative called the #SelfCareProject as a way to inform, support, and celebrate self-care habits. I’m not quite ready to share all of the details, but I would be remiss if I didn’t use this opportunity to invite you all to join me. The project will officially launch on Monday morning, so please sign up for my newsletter if you’re interested in learning more. It’s totally free and I promise it will be really fun.
Thank you again for being a part of my journey. We are stronger together than we are alone. You can also find me on Instagram, Pinterest, Facebook, and twitter.
Wow to be in a size 14 again would be utterly amazing! Congrats on ur accomplishments, I’m excited to join you on this journey 🙂
Hi Angie! Thank you for your kind words. I’m glad that you’re joining me on this journey. It’s about so much more than the number on your pant tag. I believe you can be a size 14 again and so much more.
I am just starting on my journey, but I think things are going reasonably well. I am consuming what seems like massive amounts of water. I haven’t had a Coca-Cola in quite some time. I just received a cookie and M&M’s but gave them away. I really want to do this and I had no desire for the treat. Sweet as it was. I weigh in at 261 and by the grace of God, I am hoping to make it to 150. I would still be over weight for my height but that is my goal for now. I am glad I found out about you through Yahoo. Makes it seems less unobtainable.
You got this Tonya! I too am struggling with weight loss and find the only thing that keeps me going to having someone to do it with. That can be hard to do if your the only “fat friend” or your schedule is crazy, like mine. I love Brooke’s out look on the weight loss, it’s not about the # on the scale, it’s how we feel!!!